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Real Words. Radiant Power.
Books that help you reclaim your body, voice, and truth.
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At Real and Radiant, our mission is to break silence with truth.
We create raw, honest, and healing-focused books that help women and men reconnect with their bodies, rewrite emotional patterns, and reclaim their sense of worth. Whether you’re navigating burnout, lost libido, pelvic health, trauma recovery, or the quiet ache of not feeling seen these aren’t just books. They’re lifelines.
We don’t believe in sugarcoating.
We believe in starting where the pain lives and walking with you to where the power begins.
This is your space to be real. And rise radiant.
Welcome to Real and Radiant Collection
Where Did My Libido Go?
Strong From Within Your Pelvic Floor Playbook!
You Were Never the Problem!
A raw, emotional guide for women who feel disconnected, unseen, or emotionally shut down in their own bodies.
his isn’t a sex manual — it’s a truth-teller. A reclamation. A quiet scream turned into a steady voice.
If you’ve ever wondered why you don’t feel desire anymore… why your body feels foreign… why you’re going through the motions but feel miles away from your own skin this book is for you.
Inside, you won’t find shame or quick fixes. You’ll find stories that sound like yours, emotional truths that hit too close to home, and practical steps to reconnect with the most powerful relationship you have: the one with yourself.
You’re not broken. You’re buried. And this is your way back.
You Were Never the Problem!
Strong From Within Your Pelvic Floor Playbook!
You Were Never the Problem!
A survival guide for men in relationships with narcissistic women.
You didn’t imagine it.
You endured it.
You Were Never the Problem is a raw, unfiltered guide for men who’ve been emotionally manipulated, gaslit, blamed, and slowly erased by someone they once trusted often a partner with narcissistic traits.
If you’ve felt like nothing you did was ever enough… if you’ve found yourself apologizing for things you didn’t do… if you’ve questioned your memory, your masculinity, or your worth — this book is for you.
Inside, you’ll uncover:
- The signs and cycles of narcissistic abuse (and why you didn’t see them at first)
- How gaslighting rewires your sense of self.
- What the trauma bond really is and how to break it.
- How to reclaim your voice, boundaries, and emotional clarity.
- The truth about walking away, relapse, and rebuilding without shame.
You were loyal. You were patient. You tried.
But you were never the problem.
You don’t need permission to heal. You need truth — and a way out.
This isn’t therapy. It’s your fire exit.
It’s the return to who you were before survival became your identity.
Strong From Within Your Pelvic Floor Playbook!
Strong From Within Your Pelvic Floor Playbook!
Strong From Within Your Pelvic Floor Playbook!
This isn’t just about muscles — it’s about power.
Strong From Within is a modern, no-fluff guide for every woman who’s ever felt pressure, pain, or disconnection in her body and was told to “just do Kegels.”
No more silence. No more guessing.
Inside, you’ll learn:
- What your pelvic floor actually is (and why it matters at every life stage)
- How trauma, stress, hormones, and childbirth affect your core
- Breathwork, movement, and emotional tools to heal from the inside out
- How to reclaim sensation, strength, and confidence in your own body
Whether you're postpartum, perimenopausal, or simply tired of feeling out of sync with your body this playbook gives you the clarity, tools, and self-trust to begin again.
Your strength was never gone. It was waiting beneath the surface.
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Honestly… It’s Just a Date!
You Love Him But You’re Losing Your Mind!
Honestly… It’s Just a Date!
Stop calling it chemistry when it’s just chaos.
For the girl who checked her phone 17 times, changed her outfit twice, and still walked into the restaurant knowing something felt off.
For the woman who reread old texts like they were a novel with a different ending.
For the one who cried in her car after he “just wasn’t ready” — but like
Stop calling it chemistry when it’s just chaos.
For the girl who checked her phone 17 times, changed her outfit twice, and still walked into the restaurant knowing something felt off.
For the woman who reread old texts like they were a novel with a different ending.
For the one who cried in her car after he “just wasn’t ready” — but liked every one of her Instagram stories anyway.
For the one who keeps asking, “Was I too much?” — you weren’t.
Honestly… It’s Just a Date is the no-fluff guide to modern dating for people who are done shrinking, second-guessing, and emotionally spiraling over someone they barely know.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
- Break your pattern with emotionally unavailable partners
- Tell the difference between effort and ego
- Set boundaries that protect your softness, not harden it
- Recognize love bombing, passive control, and ghosting for what they really are
- Stop performing your worth — and start honoring it
This isn’t about how to get the guy.
It’s about how to never lose yourself again trying to be chosen.
It’s not just a date. It’s your peace. And you get to protect it.
Balanced & Radiant
You Love Him But You’re Losing Your Mind!
Honestly… It’s Just a Date!
A woman’s guide to hormones, energy, and coming back to yourself.
You’re not lazy. You’re not moody. You’re not “just getting older.”
You’re hormonally out of sync and no one ever taught you how to listen to the signals.
Balanced & Radiant is the hormone book that actually makes sense.
It’s clear, compassionate, and built for women who wan
A woman’s guide to hormones, energy, and coming back to yourself.
You’re not lazy. You’re not moody. You’re not “just getting older.”
You’re hormonally out of sync and no one ever taught you how to listen to the signals.
Balanced & Radiant is the hormone book that actually makes sense.
It’s clear, compassionate, and built for women who want to stop guessing and start feeling right in their own skin again.
Whether you're dealing with brain fog, burnout, weight changes, low libido, mood swings, or that quiet sense of “I don’t feel like myself anymore” this book helps you connect the dots.
Inside, you'll learn how to:
- Understand what your hormones are really doing (and why you're not crazy).
- Navigate your 30s, 40s, and 50s with energy, clarity, and strength.
- Reclaim your rhythm in your body, your mood, and your sex drive.
- Recognize the hidden stressors that keep your system stuck.
- Build a lifestyle that works with your hormones, not against them.
No medical jargon. No fear tactics. No one-size-fits-all BS.
Just real insight, real tools, and the kind of validation that changes everything.
Because when your hormones are balanced — you don’t just survive.
You glow. You lead. You feel like you again.
You Love Him But You’re Losing Your Mind!
You Love Him But You’re Losing Your Mind!
You Love Him But You’re Losing Your Mind!
The quiet unraveling of women who stay too long, try too hard, and love too deeply — without being loved back the same.
You don’t hate him. You’re not even sure you want to leave.
But you’re tired bone-deep tired of explaining your needs, managing his moods, and wondering when you became someone who walks on eggshells in her own home.
You
The quiet unraveling of women who stay too long, try too hard, and love too deeply — without being loved back the same.
You don’t hate him. You’re not even sure you want to leave.
But you’re tired bone-deep tired of explaining your needs, managing his moods, and wondering when you became someone who walks on eggshells in her own home.
You Love Him but You’re Losing Your Mind is a raw, validating guide for women who are emotionally drowning in relationships that look fine from the outside but feel like slow erasure from the inside.
This isn’t about blame.
It’s about clarity.
Inside, you’ll uncover:
- How emotional neglect, passive control, and “nice guy” cruelty wear you down.
- Why you feel crazy, needy, or “too sensitive” (you’re not).
- What it really means to carry the emotional weight of two people.
- How to tell the difference between love and emotional survival.
- How to stop rescuing, explaining, and shrinking — and start reclaiming your sanity.
You don’t have to hate him to know something’s wrong.
You don’t need a villain to feel the impact of slow, subtle hurt.
You just need to tell yourself the truth — and remember that your peace is worth more than your potential.
You’re not too much. You’re just too wise to keep pretending this is love.
Discover Real and Radiant QUIZes:
QUIZ: Where Did My Libido Go?
It's not just about sex. It's about everything you've stopped feeling.”Take this 10-question quiz to see if your body, mind, and desire are trying to tell you something.
Questions
1. When was the last time you felt genuinely excited about intimacy — not just obligated, distracted, or tired?
- A. Last week
- B. A few months ago
- C. I honestly can’t remember
- D. I’ve never really felt that way
2. Do you overthink or emotionally check out during intimacy, even with someone you love?
- A. Rarely
- B. Sometimes
- C. Often
- D. Always
3. When you look in the mirror, do you feel:
- A. Confident and alive
- B. Meh. Functional, I guess
- C. Tired, unseen, maybe resentful
- D. Like I’ve disappeared from myself
4. Which of these thoughts has crossed your mind in the past 30 days? (Select all that apply)
☐ “What’s wrong with me?”
☐ “I wish I could just feel… something.”
☐ “If I fake it, maybe they’ll stop noticing.”
☐ “I miss who I used to be.”
☐ “I don’t even know what I want anymore.”
5. Do you feel emotionally safe and understood in your current relationship (or past relationships)?
- A. Yes, most of the time
- B. Somewhat, but it’s complicated
- C. Not really — I don’t open up much
- D. No — I often feel invisible or pressured
6. When you're touched unexpectedly, your first instinct is to...
- A. Smile and lean in
- B. Pause and assess
- C. Tense up
- D. Pull away completely
7. Have you ever said you’re tired, hiding a deeper reason you couldn’t explain?
- A. No, I’m always honest
- B. Maybe once or twice
- C. More times than I can count
- D. That’s basically my default script
8. Which best describes your relationship with your body?
- A. We’re on good terms
- B. It’s a work in progress
- C. I feel like it’s betraying me
- D. I feel disconnected from it entirely
9. Do you ever grieve the version of you who used to feel powerful, playful, or desired?
- A. No — I’m still that version
- B. Occasionally
- C. Yes, deeply
- D. I don’t even remember who that version was
10. If you could press a button right now and feel fully alive, sensual, and seen would you, do it?
- A. I don’t need it
- B. I’m not sure I’d trust it
- C. Yes, but I’m scared
- D. Yes. I miss that version of me.
Answer Key & Emotional Insights:
Each answer reflects a silent truth about where you are and how much of yourself you’ve buried.
- Mostly A’s: You’re present, but don’t dismiss small disconnects. Even high-functioning numbness is still numbness.
- Mostly B’s: You’re drifting. Your body is whispering, but the world is too loud to hear it.
- Mostly C’s: You’re hurting. You’ve normalized survival so much that desire feels like a distant memory.
- Mostly D’s: You’ve gone quiet. But your story isn’t over — and your healing starts when you finally let yourself be seen.
If you saw yourself in these questions… you’re not alone.
What if the problem was never your body, your hormones, or your relationship — but the silence you’ve been sitting in for too long?
Where Did My Libido Go?
is your emotional comeback — raw, honest, and written for the part of you that thought she disappeared.
Ready to feel like yourself again?
Grab the book now and begin your return to the woman you were — and the one you’re still becoming.
Where Did Your Libido Go
$19.00
Where Did My Libido Go?
You’re not broken. You’re just buried.
If you've ever wondered, "What happened to me?" while lying next to someone you love, this book is for you. It's not a medical manual or a list of quick fixes. It's a compassionate guide to rediscovering your desire and reconnecting with yourself.
Through honest insights, reflective prompts, and empowering strategies, you'll embark on a journey back to your sensuality, strength, and self.
Discover Real and Radiant QUIZes:
QUIZ: Strong From Within: How’s Your Pelvic Floor Really Doing?
Flat abs are cute. But true core strength? That’s healing, power, and confidence — from the inside out.”
Take this 10-question reality check to see if your pelvic floor has been quietly carrying more than just physical tension.
Questions
1. When was the last time you thought about your pelvic floor — not just during a workout, but as part of your emotional or physical health?
- A. This week
- B. I’ve heard of it, but don’t know much
- C. Not since pregnancy or an injury
- D. Honestly… never
2. Do you pee a little when you laugh, sneeze, or work out?
- A. No
- B. Occasionally
- C. More often than I’d like to admit
- D. Every time — I plan my life around it
3. Do you ever feel a dull heaviness, dragging sensation, or weird pressure "down there"?
- A. No
- B. Rarely
- C. Sometimes, especially at the end of the day
- D. Frequently — I just ignore it now
4. What best describes your posture and core awareness?
- A. I feel strong and aligned
- B. I’m always slouching or tightening something
- C. I feel tense, rigid, or weak in my core
- D. I’ve stopped noticing my body unless it’s in pain
5. Which of these have you experienced in the last 12 months? (Select all that apply)
☐ Low back pain or hip tightness
☐ Painful sex or internal discomfort
☐ Constipation or bowel strain
☐ Emotional tightness or clenching
☐ Avoiding movement because something “feels off” D. No — I often feel invisible or pressured
6. Do you ever feel like your body is holding stress — but you don’t know where or how to let it go?
- A. Rarely
- B. Yes, and I’m trying to figure it out
- C. Yes — I feel it in my stomach, pelvis, or lower back
- D. Yes — I carry stress like armor
7. Have you ever been told to “just do Kegels” without anyone explaining what that actually means?
- A. No
- B. Yes — I’ve tried, but I’m not sure I’m doing them right
- C. Yes — and it didn’t help
- D. Yes — and it made things worse
8. Have you felt your body betrayed you by not being enough or easier?
- A. No, I’m pretty accepting
- B. Sometimes
- C. Often
- D. I feel that every day
9. Do you feel emotionally safe, supported, and informed about your pelvic and sexual health?
- A. Yes
- B. Mostly
- C. Not really — I’ve had to figure it out alone
- D. No — I’ve been ignored, dismissed, or shamed
10. What would it mean to feel strong, grounded, and confident in your core again?
- A. It would be a bonus
- B. It would help, but I don’t know where to start
- C. It would change how I move through life
- D. It would feel like coming home to myself
Answer Key & What It Says About You:
Your pelvic floor is more than just a group of muscles. It's a container of stories, of trauma, of power, and of forgotten awareness.
- Mostly A’s: You’re in tune — but awareness isn’t the same as healing. Stay proactive.
- Mostly B’s: You’re waking up. Keep going. You’re not alone in the confusion.
- Mostly C’s: Your body is asking for attention — and compassion. Don’t ignore the signs.
- Mostly D’s: You’ve been surviving on autopilot. It’s time to soften, strengthen, and listen again.
If this quiz made you think or feel something real... it’s time to go deeper.
Your pelvic floor holds more than physical tension. It holds silence, shame, stress, stories — and the strength you forgot you had.
Strong From Within: The Pelvic Floor Playbook
isn’t just about muscles — it’s about coming back to your core, emotionally, physically, and fully.
Ready to feel strong from the inside out?
Grab the book now and start healing the part of you that no one ever taught you how to care for.
Strong from Within Your Pelvic Floor Playbook.
$19.00
Strong from Within: The Pelvic Floor Playbook
It’s not just your core. It’s your confidence, your control, your comeback.
This is more than a pelvic floor guide — it’s a full-body, whole-self awakening. Whether you’ve dealt with leaks, pressure, pain, or just the quiet sense that something’s off, this book meets you where others haven’t.
Packed with real talk, expert-backed insight, and healing tools, The Pelvic Floor Playbook helps you rebuild strength from the inside out — physically, emotionally, and unapologetically.
Discover Real and Radiant QUIZes:
QUIZ: You Were Never the Problem!
You didn’t lose hope. You just kept giving it to the wrong person.”
If you’ve ever been made to feel like everything was your fault, take this 10-question gut check. It might explain what your silence never could.
Questions
Do you still have hope that she'll become the woman you know she’s capable of being — even though she never actually shows up that way for long?
- A. Yes — I believe she can change
- B. Sometimes — I’ve seen glimpses
- C. I want to believe it, but I don’t anymore
- D. No — the hope is gone, and that scares me
2. Ever walk on eggshells around her managing your tone, your timing, just to avoid setting her off?
- A. Occasionally
- B. More than I should
- C. Almost daily
- D. Every single conversation feels like a setup
3. When you try to explain how you feel, how does she usually respond?
- A. She gets quiet and distant
- B. She gets defensive or emotional
- C. She twists it until it’s somehow your fault
- D. She explodes — so you’ve stopped trying
4. Do you find yourself constantly defending things you never said, didn’t mean, or weren’t thinking
- A. Occasionally
- B. More than seems normal
- C. Yes — it's exhausting
- D. Yes — and I’m starting to question my own memory
5. Has she called you abusive, controlling, or cold after you finally said “no” once?
- A. Once or twice
- B. Yes — and it caught me off guard
- C. Yes — it happens every time I stand up for myself
- D. Yes — and now I just stay silent to avoid it
6. Which of these feels painfully familiar? (Select all that apply)
☐ I replay conversations in my head just to make sure I didn’t mess up
☐ I feel guilty when I’m not the one fixing everything
☐ I worry she’ll twist my words
☐ I say sorry just to end the argument
☐ I don’t know who I am when I’m not trying to keep the peace
7. When you picture the best version of yourself — calm, happy, grounded — where is he now?
- A. I see him sometimes
- B. I miss him
- C. He’s buried
- D. He disappeared somewhere along the way
8. Has she denied things happened and made you question your own memory?
- A. Maybe once
- B. A few times
- C. Yes — I’ve started writing things down
- D. Yes — and now I don’t trust myself anymore
Have you traded peace, truth, or self just to keep the relationship intact?
- A. In small ways
- B. In big ways
- C. Yes — it’s the only way it works
- D. Yes — and it still doesn’t work
10. What truth scares you the most to admit?
- A. “She’ll never change.”
- B. “I lost myself trying to love her.”
- C. “She breaks me down, then calls me the problem.”
- D. “I stayed too long because I thought I deserved it.”
Answer Key: The Truth Beneath the Silence
This isn’t about her.
This is about you, finally hearing the voice inside that’s been buried under blame, gaslighting, and guilt.
- Mostly A’s: You’re still holding on — but it’s costing you more than you realize.
- Mostly B’s: You’re beginning to see behind the mask — and the silence is getting heavier.
- Mostly C’s: You’ve been stuck in a cycle of hope, harm, and self-erasure.
- Mostly D’s: You’ve gone numb — but something in you is waking up again.
If you felt this quiz in your gut, that’s not coincidence — it’s clarity.
You weren’t the cold one.
You weren’t the broken one.
You weren’t the toxic one.
You were the one who kept trying — through silence, chaos, and blame — and finally forgot what it felt like to matter.
You Were Never the Problem
is for the man who carried the guilt, the weight, the labels… and still showed up.
It’s not about bashing anyone. It’s about finally telling your story — the one you were never allowed to tell.
Ready to get your identity, voice, and peace back?
Grab the book now and start healing the part of you that no one ever taught you how to care for.
You Were Never the Problem!
$19.00
You Were Never the Problem
She twisted the truth. You carried the blame. But deep down, you always knew.
This is the book for the man who stayed loyal, kept trying, and kept losing pieces of himself in the process. You walked on eggshells. You questioned your memory, your manhood, your worth. She called you toxic when you finally said no. She weaponized your honesty and labeled your silence as guilt.
This isn’t therapy. This is clarity — in raw, honest words you’ve never heard out loud.
If you’ve ever been told you were the problem by someone who lied, blamed, and broke you down, this book is your mirror, your reset, and your quiet reckoning.
Because deep down, you didn’t lose control.
You lost yourself.
And now? You’re taking him back.